The Bloody Shoe

“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.”

Maya Angelou

 

I arrived home to my little apartment in the college town that I live in. The air was sweet with the scent of mud and springtime. I opened my sliding glass door to welcome the gentle breeze that would send those wonderful scents inside, allowing the smell of kitty urine to dissipate. For a short time, till I could get on the floor and scrub away the anger that Cinders felt because I left her for three weeks.

My ex-husband continuing to be the good man that he is, brought me home from the rehabilitation center that I’d been residing in for the last 17 days. I was recuperating from a major auto accident that left my ankle shattered but my resolve steely. On March 12, I decided to go buy gas before I went to bed. Knowing the temperature was going to drop, I headed into the night. I didn’t realize that it would be a fateful decision, one that I will grapple with understanding for the rest of my life. It changed everything. Everything.

I scooted around in my new friend, a kick ass wheelchair. I figured I better get used to it since I was going to be using it for at least the next three months or more. I’m recovering from a shattered ankle and reconstructive surgery along with two bone grafts thrown in. When I do it, I do it up good! Cue more rolling around on carpet and trying to get re-acclimated to my domicile. Cinders, the devil kitty mewed like she was in heat. I guess she missed me, but when I rolled up to her, she backed away and showed me her ass.

Roger helped me start putting things away, all the while admonishing me not to do too much. He was my partner for almost 25 years, and he knows me all too well. He went to grocery shop, and I set my sights on emptying bags. And putting things back where they belong. Wiping down kitchen counters with bleach and going through mail. Cinders kept observing me from afar but her curiosity got the best of her and she sidled up against my leg. The one with the cast, because, well, I needed cat hair to adhere to it.

Laura buzzed my door and I popped up to press the button to let her in. Chalk one up for old one leg, I could buzz people in through the apartment security door. Woohoo! She was so excited to be my first visitor. We hugged and chatted, both of us fucking around with our phones and catching the score of the Tigers game. That’s one of my goals this season is to watch the Tigers and enjoy doing so. It’s easy to do when they have a pitcher as hot as Verlander. Damn!

Roger returned from grocery shopping and we put things away, together. I’m determined to live independently and that means putting away groceries. After that task was done, I started emptying the box of shit from my car. Gloves, umbrellas, hats, and other odds and ends were put away in the coat closet. There are no immediate plans to buy a new car. I can’t drive for at least three months anyway.

Then I found the bloody shoe. It was the one I was wearing when I collided with a bus on a slippery surface street at a railroad track. There was a bloody sock too, but it didn’t effect me quite the way that damn shoe did. My blood was soaked into it, along with other flecks of gore. I was mesmerized by it. I contemplated saving it. I had just bought them, for 25 % off no less. Roger and Laura with all of the their R.N. empathy told me to get over it and throw the damn thing out. I laughed with them, but decided to keep it. For now, anyway.

I wanted to keep it to remind me that life can turn on a dime. An impulse. Or even a decision to go buy gas on a night when there’s been a blizzard, because OMFG I need gas right now. I’ll throw it away eventually. Probably when the cast comes off for good. Or, worst case scenario, when the doctor tells me that I’m going to have my ankle fused after my fourth invasive surgery. I pray for the former, but I’m trying to prepare for the latter.

That bloody shoe reminds me to be less impulsive. It also reminds me that it could have been worse. Much, much worse.

15 thoughts on “The Bloody Shoe

  1. Shoot Renee…glad it wasn’t for a chocolate…then you WOULD have been mad 🙂
    Hope the damage is just a blip in your life and it repairs well. Being the independent human that you are, it will test you a little bit. Ok, maybe a lot.
    Bloody cat…probably feeling rejected…through no fault of your own. You’ll make it up to each other over a warm milk, a bit of fish and a shedding of fur on each other
    🙂
    Take care, may all your wounds heal, within and without. Namaste

    • Dearest Mark,

      Thank you for your kind words. They mean so much to me. I hope you are right, that this is just a blip on the screen of my life. I’m feeling a bit sorry for myself at the moment. A good night’s sleep will help curb the sadness and bring a smile back to my face.

      As for the cat, she’s been so loving to me. I awoke to find her asleep on my tummy. She was sleeping so soundly she was snoring. I think I’m forgiven.

      I hope you are well my friend. Namaste and love to you.

      Love, Renee

      • Thank you Renee for your love and wishes. I’m going well and things are good, though a little testing at the moment. But that builds our truth within, brings us back to that love within.
        You’ll look back in a month and wonder what the fuss was all about, but you will remember the strength and love for yourself that it will have built from going through it.
        I think your forgiven by the furry love of your life too. Now, about that saucer of milk 🙂
        Take care, and know that when we go through these things, we change, and things that seemed to be important and mattered to us, no longer will…and things that seemed not to, will now come into focus. And they are always to do with love, for you and others.
        Namaste and be well my friend, you are going to be fine…plus I miss your writing 🙂 Maybe that will change too 🙂

      • I adore every word you wrote to me. I will keep writing. It’s what I love. It’s who I am. Took me long enough to find my fire, and I’ll be damned if I’ll let it go out.

        I hope that the trial you’re going through won’t last long and will turn out positively.

        I have till June in a cast. First one comes off at the end of the month. I think I’ll find my notes that I’ve written for the book I want to write. Maybe it’s time to write it.

        More posts are coming up. Hold on my dear man.

        Love, Renee

  2. What they don’t realise is that in years to come the writer in you will plonk that bloody shoe in the middle of your desk and write a best seller from not only your emotions it brings back but from the story it will demand you write 😀

    • Dear Paula,

      You are absolutely right. We writers take images and all sorts of other props and write the most amazing stories. Be they fiction or our own story. The first time I did that I had no idea there was a name for it. I didn’t. I was so green. Maybe someday that bloody shoe will inspire me and not make me relive such a harrowing night. Till then, it stays in the closet.

      Love, Renee

  3. I would be there with you saving the shoe and begging someone to find its partner. After all you still have both feet and shoes clean. Lord I do have a problem don’t I?
    Beautiful writing as always my dear. You are embracing life and all of its changes like the goddess of language that you are.

    • Dear loney,

      Thanks for your sweet words. I found the mate. It’s in my closet. I won’t be able to clean the blood from it, but I will save it. Like I told Paula, one of these days it won’t scare me to look at it. It won’t make me cry or question why I ran out into the night. Maybe it’ll inspire another story? Who knows what the future will bring.

      Thank you for being so kind about my writing. It makes my heart soar.

      Love, Renee

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